So recently I have become an observer, I used to be the girl who would voice out when I felt someones partner was being unjust towards them. I quickly learnt that many don't want you telling them anything negative about their relationship. I think its because it is either they know and choose to over look it or they just plainly do not want an opinion on what they have already made their made up on.
Many make an excuse or say "He loves me but he just has alot going on" or "She was brought up by a single mom so she needs her independence". Why cant we call a thing a thing? Why do many of us both male and female give away the keys to our Kingdoms to cowards who do not deal with themselves?. I define a coward as a person who knows they have a problem but choose to avoid facing it, fixing it or working through it. They are so deep into their own denial that they are willing to hurt the people they "love", it is difficult loving someone who has walls up.
You try and break them but its like a war zone. The best thing to do is move on because it doesn't matter what you do, you cannot change them. They have to change on their own, to the women who is emotionally abused you are someones queen. To the brother who suffers through being put down by his woman, the is a queen who is willing to celebrate your manhood.
We want to commit to people who will end up changing us into bitter people, people who will find negativity in the good of others because we envy them. Your inner man is shouting to be let free of the gated walls he is in, do not let a coward inherit what you have built.
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